Find your dream partner in 3 simple steps

Finding a partner on the Internet is actually quite simple. But only if you know how to do it. And that's exactly what we have a foolproof guide for!

Millions of singles share a common goal: to find the one partner with whom they will spend the rest of their lives. But how do you find such a dream person? 

Petra Frömsdorf
Expert since 2003
A lid goes with every pot!

These three steps will lead you to success on your online dating journey:

Step 1: Reflect on yourself and set yourself a goal

Before you start looking for your dream partner online, it is important to understand yourself and your goals.

  • Self-reflection: Think about what you are looking for in a relationship. What qualities and values are important to you? What are your long-term goals in terms of relationships?
  • Set clear goals: Define clear goals for your partner search. Do you want a long-term relationship, marriage, friendship or casual dating? The clearer your goals are, the more targeted your search will be.

Step 2: Choose the right dating platform

  • Research: Take a look at various dating platforms and apps. Think about which one best suits your goals and interests. There are platforms for long-term relationships, casual dating, religious communities, specific age groups and more.
  • Create an authentic profile: Once you have decided on a platform, create an authentic profile. Use clear photos and describe yourself honestly to attract potential partners who suit you.

Step 3: Take an active and respectful approach

Once you are on the right platform, it is important to be proactive and respectful in your search.

  • Take the initiative: Be proactive and initiate chats or send messages to singles who have aroused your interest. Avoid standard messages and show genuine interest in the person.
  • Communication and getting to know each other: Take the time to get to know the other person better. Ask questions, listen and also reveal something about yourself. Open and honest communication is the key to happiness.
  • Patience and realism: Be patient and have realistic expectations. The search for your dream partner can take time and not every date will lead to the perfect relationship. Be open to different people and relationship possibilities.

Finding your dream partner online takes time and even more commitment. It is important to embark on this journey and learn and grow along the way. Be patient and trust that the right partner is out there waiting for you!


Petra Frömsdorf
Petra Frömsdorf
Petra has been monitoring the world of online dating sites since 2003. In the media she is considered the leading expert on the topic of "online dating".