How to create an impressive profile for your dating site

Which photo is suitable as a profile picture? How do I catch the eye of potential partners? What should I include in my personal description? And what not?

A great profile on a dating site can help you attract more attention from potential partners and increase your chances of making successful contacts. Here are some tips for creating a meaningful profile:

1. Choose an appealing profile picture

  • Use an attractive, recent photo in which you are easily recognisable.
  • Smile in the photo, this conveys a positive aura.
  • Avoid group photos or blurred images.

2. Fill out your profile completely

  • Provide detailed information about yourself, including your interests, hobbies, life goals and values.
  • Mention what you are looking for on the platform (e.g. a long-term relationship, friendship, joint activities).
  • Use any free text fields to introduce yourself.

3. Be creative and unique

  • Avoid empty phrases and clichés. Instead, tell short stories and give an insight into your personality.
  • Show your interests and passions to find common ground with potential partners.
  • Emphasise your unique qualities and what sets you apart from others.

4. Use positive language

  • Formulate your texts positively and optimistically. Avoid negative or nagging statements.
  • Emphasise what you have to offer in a relationship and what positive qualities you value.

5. Authenticity is key

  • Be honest and authentic in your profile. Lies or exaggerations will not pay off in the long term.
  • Share both your strengths and weaknesses to build a real connection.

6. Show a sense of humour

  • A little humour can add personality to your profile and attract people who share your sense of humour.
  • However, avoid crude or inappropriate jokes.

7. Update your profile regularly

  • Keep your profile up to date by adding new photos and updating your information occasionally.
  • Update your relationship status if your situation changes.

8. Use correct grammar and spelling

  • Make sure you use clear and correct grammar and spelling to make a positive impression.

9. Be careful and respectful

  • Do not share any personal information such as your address or telephone number in your profile.
  • Show respect for other members and avoid rude or intrusive messages.

A well-completed and lovingly created profile on a dating site is the basis for successful online dating. A great profile attracts the eyes of potential partners. And please remember: authenticity and honesty are the key to building truly meaningful relationships.


Petra Frömsdorf
Petra Frömsdorf
Petra has been monitoring the world of online dating sites since 2003. In the media she is considered the leading expert on the topic of "online dating".